Let’s Chat: Spoilers. Love Knowing or Better Blind?

You’re in the middle of an amazing book. You tell someone what you’re reading. Without thinking, they give away the ending.

Or…

You’re in the middle of an amazing book. You close it without bookmarking. When you open again to find your place, you open the cover a wee bit too far and mistakenly read ahead.

Or…

You’re in the middle of an amazing (uplifting) book. You tell someone what you’re reading. They tell you how tragically sad the ending is and how it will make you sob. You spend the rest of the book trying to figure out the sad twist that you never knew existed.

Or…

Someone posts something on Facebook and while innocently scrolling through your newsfeed, you now have books (AND REALITY TV) ruined for you.

THE. WORST.

All of these situations have happened to me and I’m quite certain they have also happened for a number of you. Admittingly, I am more sensitive to this than most people. I absolutely HATE knowing anything ahead of time.

When I’m reading a book and the plot is getting GOOD, it’s not uncommon for me to physically put my hand over the rest of the page so I cannot mistakenly read ahead.

When I am watching reality tv (my favorite), I mute the sound and look away when Chris Harrison announces, “Tonight on the Bachelor” or “Coming up after the break”. Scenes from next week?????? FORGET ABOUT IT. Hell no.

I saw Hamilton without listening to a single song first although everyone told me I needed to. I did zero historical research. I walked into that theater completely blind and I truly think I had a better experience because of it!

Have you ever noticed the following disclaimer that I include with every book review that I publish on my blog?

(Disclaimer: I will never post spoilers in my reviews HOWEVER the comment section is completely fair game to discuss any and all specifics including spoilers)

I have heard that there are people who when they receive a book, the very first thing that they do is to read the last page of the book. Do people like this really exist?!?

I never Google a television show for any reason unless I am 100 percent caught up in the current season. I have blocked people on Facebook when they post status updates about current television shows so nothing will be ruined for me if I’m an episode or 2 behind. I turn away from the magazines in the grocery store checkout aisle when they post photos of current reality tv stars.

I once told a friend how excited I was to watch the Bachelor finale that night and she responded with “Oh! ____won! I just read an article!” This was roughly 3 hours before the finale aired. And of course my friend was right. And of course it was the girl who I NEVER thought was going to win. It would have been such an amazing finale.

When I’m reading or watching television, I NEVER try to predict the ending. I just enjoy the present and not give too much thought into trying to figure out what will happen next (on a side note, this is also a fantastic way to go about life…but that’s a different post for a different day).

To me, nothing beats an amazing twist that I never saw coming. Nothing is better than a surprise ending. When an author has the ability to make this happen, it’s brilliant. So many specific books come to mind…but I don’t want to spoil any of them for you!

What are your thoughts on all of this? How do you feel about spoilers? Tell me a story about a time when someone ruined something for you!

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Book Review: This Is How It Always Is {Laurie Frankel}

Happy Friday!

If you are reading this that means that I haven’t actually frozen into a block of ice by this point. Silver lining, right?

It’s. So. Cold.

Breathtakingly beautiful outside? Absolutely. Ridiculously unbelievably freezing outside? You betcha.

I just walked in the door from driving my daughter to school (I was not about to let her wait at a bus stop this morning) and the thermometer in my car was reading in the negative numbers. Holy hell.

I posted this photo on Instagram yesterday and titled it “My Favorite Summer Reading Spot”. It’s funny and yet heartbreakingly sad all at the same time.

Stay warm, local friends. It’s insane out there.

One great thing about spending time inside when it’s too cold to leave is the opportunity to read a well written book! Unfortunately, the book that I reviewed for you today is not well written. I would encourage you to browse through past blog posts to find book recommendations because I definitely would NOT recommend the following book…

Synopsis from Goodreads:

This is how a family keeps a secret…and how that secret ends up keeping them.

This is how a family lives happily ever after…until happily ever after becomes complicated.

This is how children change…and then change the world.

This is Claude. He’s five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess.

When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl.

Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They’re just not sure they’re ready to share that with the world. Soon the entire family is keeping Claude’s secret. Until one day it explodes.

This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it’s about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don’t get to keep them forever.

My Thoughts:

(Disclaimer: I will never post spoilers in my reviews HOWEVER the comment section is completely fair game to discuss any and all specifics including spoilers)

2 Stars

I know I’m in the minority here but I really didn’t like this book. I SO BADLY wanted to! I was very excited to read it because I heard such great things.

The actual story was beautiful and the message behind it was important. However, the characters were underdeveloped and the writing was…painfully long.

There were certain moments that were well written and others that felt like they were never going to end. Ever. This book took entirely too much time for me to finish because honestly, I was so incredibly bored through so much of it.

I wanted MORE out of the writing. I wanted the author to dig deeper into this intricate story and these characters. I wanted her to develop these characters on an entirely different (deeper) level. So much of this book was just “surface writing” on a topic which truthfully deserves so much more than that.

Bottom Line:

This book had all of the potential to be wonderful. It wasn’t.

Did you read this book? What did you think? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

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