Let’s Chat: Spoilers. Love Knowing or Better Blind?

You’re in the middle of an amazing book. You tell someone what you’re reading. Without thinking, they give away the ending.

Or…

You’re in the middle of an amazing book. You close it without bookmarking. When you open again to find your place, you open the cover a wee bit too far and mistakenly read ahead.

Or…

You’re in the middle of an amazing (uplifting) book. You tell someone what you’re reading. They tell you how tragically sad the ending is and how it will make you sob. You spend the rest of the book trying to figure out the sad twist that you never knew existed.

Or…

Someone posts something on Facebook and while innocently scrolling through your newsfeed, you now have books (AND REALITY TV) ruined for you.

THE. WORST.

All of these situations have happened to me and I’m quite certain they have also happened for a number of you. Admittingly, I am more sensitive to this than most people. I absolutely HATE knowing anything ahead of time.

When I’m reading a book and the plot is getting GOOD, it’s not uncommon for me to physically put my hand over the rest of the page so I cannot mistakenly read ahead.

When I am watching reality tv (my favorite), I mute the sound and look away when Chris Harrison announces, “Tonight on the Bachelor” or “Coming up after the break”. Scenes from next week?????? FORGET ABOUT IT. Hell no.

I saw Hamilton without listening to a single song first although everyone told me I needed to. I did zero historical research. I walked into that theater completely blind and I truly think I had a better experience because of it!

Have you ever noticed the following disclaimer that I include with every book review that I publish on my blog?

(Disclaimer: I will never post spoilers in my reviews HOWEVER the comment section is completely fair game to discuss any and all specifics including spoilers)

I have heard that there are people who when they receive a book, the very first thing that they do is to read the last page of the book. Do people like this really exist?!?

I never Google a television show for any reason unless I am 100 percent caught up in the current season. I have blocked people on Facebook when they post status updates about current television shows so nothing will be ruined for me if I’m an episode or 2 behind. I turn away from the magazines in the grocery store checkout aisle when they post photos of current reality tv stars.

I once told a friend how excited I was to watch the Bachelor finale that night and she responded with “Oh! ____won! I just read an article!” This was roughly 3 hours before the finale aired. And of course my friend was right. And of course it was the girl who I NEVER thought was going to win. It would have been such an amazing finale.

When I’m reading or watching television, I NEVER try to predict the ending. I just enjoy the present and not give too much thought into trying to figure out what will happen next (on a side note, this is also a fantastic way to go about life…but that’s a different post for a different day).

To me, nothing beats an amazing twist that I never saw coming. Nothing is better than a surprise ending. When an author has the ability to make this happen, it’s brilliant. So many specific books come to mind…but I don’t want to spoil any of them for you!

What are your thoughts on all of this? How do you feel about spoilers? Tell me a story about a time when someone ruined something for you!

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Let’s Chat: Is Reading a Social Hobby?

It’s absolutely freezing here.

So. Much. Snow.

The roads are ridiculous, I can’t feel my fingers, and I’m currently eating steaming hot banana oatmeal to warm up my insides. I’m writing this sitting next to my dining room window where the current falling snow is making me feel like I’m blogging from the inside of a snow globe.

And…I’m loving every second (minus the driving).

Winter is favorite season and I’m obsessed with snow! There is nothing more gorgeous to me than freshly fallen snow. This is mine and my daughter’s favorite snow covered tree. So, so beautiful.

Stay safe and stay warm, local friends!

Today’s blog topic is one that I have been pondering for quite some time, especially the older that I’ve been getting.

Reading is an interesting hobby.

I think it’s the most antisocial and yet completely social hobby all at the same time.

I need silence when I read. As in no talking, no television, no distractions.

I am an only child and have always loved having alone time. I prefer quiet to chaos, silence to loudness, and peace to noise. I have always been like this! Reading is the perfect, quiet hobby for me. Always has been and always will be.

Throughout the day, I find myself thinking about whatever book I’m currently reading. While I’m driving, while I’m washing dishes, etc. I could be at the most amazing and exciting party and yet somewhere in the back of my mind…be dreaming of the next time when I will be able to peacefully snuggle up with a book. Antisocial hobby?

And yet, I have had AMAZING and in depth discussions with people about books. People who I don’t even know well! Books have such a magical way of instantly providing complex topics for discussions. Reminds me of a picture I posted on Instagram last month. LOVE IT!

How can something be called antisocial when the very focus of it is to meet characters, travel to far away places, learn cultural differences, and to broaden the horizon of topics which previously had not be known?

I started this book blog as a creative outlet for this stay at home mom to be able to share her passion with others. I can’t believe all that it has provided for me in such a short amount of time! I have met so many new friends, both physically as well as virtually. I have created a space in which I’ve watched others interact with each other though books. I have had numerous people tell me that they appreciate the community I have created here. All because of books. Amazing.

This all brings me back to my original question: Is reading a social hobby?

I’m not entirely sure…I just know that either way, it’s the perfect hobby for me. 🙂

What do you think? Is reading a social hobby? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMY! I love you and I love our friendship so, so much! Can’t wait to celebrate this weekend!

(To learn more about us and our special friendship read this post)

Stay safe and warm, everyone!

XO,

Jenny

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Let’s Chat: I’m A Monster. Anyone Else?

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There are 2 types of readers. Those who use a bookmark to hold their place within a book and those who…brace yourselves…bend back (“dog ear”) the corner of page. It is typically regarded that people who chose this former method are monsters who have no respect for the book or the words held within.

I bend back the pages. Every single time. **hides beneath chair**

Hear me out! I haven’t always been like this!

In fact, I used to own a GORGEOUS red leather bookmark. I bought it at the Coach Store and it was very fancy, very beautiful, and very expensive. I used it for years and it did a perfect job of holding my place each time I put my book down.

I sold it at my garage sale last summer. $3.00.

I have 2 children now. And a husband. And my quiet, quality reading time just isn’t what it used to be. I used to be able to start a book in the morning, read allllll day long, and finish the book before bedtime. These days, my time to enjoy a book is short but oh, so precious. I sneak in a few pages whenever I can…naptime, before a doctor appointment, getting my car washed, etc. There is no time for searching for a bookmark. When someone around here needs me, the page gets folded and I’m good to go. Fast. Easy. Proof of this: the picture that I posted on Instagram yesterday, lol (follow me @bookcoffeehappy).

Here’s a strange confession: I kind of like when I check a book out of the library and can see where the person before me left off. Is that weird??? Sometimes I think “HOW did they put this book down NOW?” Other times I think “Ooooh good call. Perfect spot to leave off.”

The older I get the more into the minimalism lifestyle I become (another post for another day). I don’t NEED a bookmark. Just one more possession I don’t need to keep track of.

I think my monster ways have rubbed off on someone else in my house. I’ve watched her do this twice over past week when it was time for her to stop doing what she was doing and didn’t want to lose her place.

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